Saturday, July 31, 2010

How to Save Your Marriage - How to Apply Counter-Psychology to Save a Marriage

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A marriage can be difficult to maintain even under the best of circumstances. There are often things beyond both parties control that make the marriage hard to maintain. If the marriage is hard to maintain, it can be difficult to want to make it go on. If there is a problem, conflict, or argument, it can be hard to retain any kind of positive mood. If your spouse is determined to leave you, but you are determined to make the marriage work, there are a few things you can do.

The first step you must make, even if it is begrudgingly so, is to acknowledge that the marriage has changed dramatically over the years. This can be a hard step to take because it places blame squarely on both parties, and there is often a lot of arguing in these events. The trial separation that is a result of this discussion may be the best thing for the marriage overall. Sometimes, a marriage just can't prosper, even under the best of circumstances. The solution is to give it some time apart, and this counter-intuitive solution will raise the prospects that it will work out in the future

The old phrase that the grass is always greener on the side can really serve your relationship in this instance. Your spouse may regretfully want you back after realizing how empty his or her life is without you. The task of getting your spouse back can be a hardship and a burden if you try to press the matter on your own, but it can be simple if you just withdraw and let your spouse come back to you on their own terms. Your spouse will definitely feel the lack of your presence in their life, and they will seek to reconstitute themselves in your life by whatever means necessary. This is the best step to getting your relationship going. Withdraw completely and get your spouse to want to come back to you. That is the best step that you can make in your life. Your spouse will doggedly want you all the time. You will come out the good guy in the end.

If you are trying to re-start the romance, it is best to mimic those actions that got the relationship going in the first place instead of just doing the same wrong things that have made your spouse not attracted to you over and over again. That is the best thing you can do by far.

Even if both spouses love each other sincerely, at times they might find themselves getting more and more distant from each other and getting close to a divorce. But like me, you too can take some steps into saving your marriage and turning it into a satisfying relationship.

After an Affair - How to Repair Your Relationship

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If one of you had an affair, it is crucial that you do not make the same mistake again! You will definitely lose one another forever! A lot of couples have showed they can lead normal and happy lives after a devastating affair. They have to avoid obstacles and go through things that are in their way to achieve this. What can you do to save this relationship?

If there is cheating involved this means something was missing in the relationship. You both have to admit you were wrong. You have to see why your relationship went down this road.

What type of affair was it? Yes there is more than one type! Not just the physical one which is the most devastating of them all but the emotional one also. Whoever cheated could have done so by talking to another person intimately, or by phone or cyber sex.

Cyber sex is really now bad nowadays as you are online role playing and talking dirty. People do not think it is cheating when it is! It shows you do not care about your significant other at all! You are not serious about it either! And of all things trust is now broken!

Find out the reasons for the affair and see what is missing in the relationship. See what went wrong. Be honest to each other why this happened or is still happening. It may be difficult to hear the answers, but you must act like adults about and tackle this head on.

The answers might even surprise you! The person did not feel loved anymore, they did not feel respected, just needed more attention, or it was the thrill of sneaking around behind your back!

Go fix the things that caused the affair. Work slowly on gaining each others trust back. And most of all do this slowly and give it time to heal the relationship.

Thursday, July 29, 2010

Five Tips to Building Confidence to Get a Prom Date

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Are you worried about asking your favourite friend to go to the prom with you? Do you think (s)he will say no and then you feel rejected? Do you feel completely paralysed in the ability to ask anyone to take you to the prom?

If you have fears surrounding your prom, believe me, you're not alone. All teenagers struggle with this. Girls tend to put more effort and attention to finding the perfect prom date with the most handsome guy for themselves. Usually, this turmoil starts early with some girls. For some, by the time February rolls around, they are already searching for that perfect prom date.

Some girls know intuitively how to get the prom date of their dreams. They know exactly what to say or do to win that perfect guy or girl. Sadly, most girls and boys really have a difficult time knowing exactly how to confidently get a prom date. Below, I offer five tips on how to ease the burden.

1. Don't plan to approach only one person. Half expect that the perfect guy or girl may not want to go to the prom with you. So, plan on expanding your horizons beyond who you really, really want to go to the prom with. And, who knows? Maybe the date that you thought would be perfect wouldn't be anyway.

2. Ask the girl or guy that you want to go to the prom with early on. If (s)he says no, you won't be as devastated because you will have a lot of time to find someone else who will enjoy and be honoured to take you. So, don't fret, just move on.

3. Don't do the hero worship thing. No one is so perfect that you have to be devastated and heartbroken if (s)he doesn't want to go to the prom with you. Remember we all have faults, and so do they. So, if things don't work out exactly the way you want, don't beat yourself up. Instead, just accept it and move past the situation.

4. Accept a no for what it is. Don't beg or plead. If the guy or girl doesn't want to go to the prom with you or has someone else slotted to go with, (s)he won't have a good time with you anyway. So, find someone who really wants to go with you and then you will be guaranteed to have a good time. Not only that, pleading and begging is for the weak-hearted and the girl or boy who lacks self-confidence. So, don't show that side of yourself to anyone.

5. If no one has asked you to the prom and the magical day is approaching but you don't have a date, you may consider asking your cousin or brother or sister. That way, you will have a date to the prom no matter what and you don't have to be heartbroken if that perfect gal or guy doesn't ask you out.

By following these tips, you could keep your self-confidence and keep your cool as well. Remember prom day is a one of a kind day. You will remember it for the rest of your life. Try and have something really good to remember about it. Above all, relax and have a good and safe time.

How to Attract Women Instantly and Effortlessly

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How to attract women is a deep subject with as many perspectives and insights as you could hope to read or learn in a lifetime.

But if you read and study these ideas - on what attracts women to men - you'll notice one single theme, one common denominator: women are attracted to men who offer value.

Without going into all of the evolutionary and psychological reasoning behind this, take my word for it, you name something that a woman finds attractive in a man, and it's some sort of value being offered to her.

So how do you add value to a woman's life? It can be anything from being well-dressed, good looking and having money, to having a great sense of humor, being kind, strong and confident to teasing her and showing her experiences she's never had before.

But here are a couple key principles to keep in mind:

* Stand out from the crowd. If you look like every other guy she sees all day, she's not going to perceive you to be offering much that other guys aren't. This doesn't mean dress like a clown, but develop your sense of style and express your personality more freely.

* Develop your sense of humor. If you're not naturally witty or funny, take some improv classes and comedy classes. Everyone can develop a sense of humor. If you are funny, start using it - but not on yourself. Nothing screams low-value like self-depreciating humor (unless you're Woody Allen, of course).

* Be happy and positive. Positive people who are happy with their lives and situation natural magnetize other people towards them, men and women. This is especially important with women because they're very empathic and if you're negative and depressed, they'll feel negative and depressed around you, not wanting to hang out with you.

* Have a lot of friends. Go out and create a large social circle. Not only are very social people generally more happy with their lives, but they demonstrate greater value to any women who may meet you. Not to mention that the more friends you have, the more women you'll be able to meet through them.But these principles are by no means everything. In fact, they really scratch the surface. We give in-depth explanations about attraction and value at our seminars. They'll change the way you perceive women and social dynamics, guaranteed.

How to Keep the Conversation Going on Your First Date

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One of the biggest fears that most people are afraid of facing when going out on a date is that they will run out of things to talk about. Nobody likes awkward silences; simply because it makes you feel, well, awkward. There are many ways in which you can prevent this from happening. Here are a few conversation techniques that will get you started;

One of the most effective conversation techniques to use is by asking fill-in questions. In other words, as the conversation moves along, every now and then, whenever there is a slight pause, throw in another question about whatever that person had said in the conversation. By doing this, you are keeping the conversation going indefinitely. With this technique, you will never run out of questions as there is always something to ask. Another thing that you will find this technique is that the subject itself can gradually change over time.

Though this is a very powerful method, you have to be careful not to overdo it. In order to achieve this successfully, you have to be careful of the time intervals between each question. In other words, you want the person to talk for a while about a particular subject before throwing in the next question. When you do throw in a question, make sure that it is relevant to the topic, otherwise it sounds like you are trying to change the subject, which can sound very rude.

Whenever you ask your partner any type of question, always avoid those personal questions that can put your date on the line. In other words, stay away from questions with the following type of phrases; "Am I your type?", "how am I doing so far?" and so forth. These type questions will do nothing more than remind yourself and your date that this is a date you are on and not just a fun social event.

Yes, it is true that you are on a date, but what you want it to be is a fun social event so that the two of you can relax together and enjoy the evening building a rapport in a natural environment. As soon as you remind the other that you are on a date with them, things can become awkward, especially if you put them on the spot with these types of questions.

By using these tips, you will be able to enjoy a full dating session without ever having to worry about any of those awkward silences.

Relationships - 5 Ways To Make Him Nuts Over You

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Are you ready to turn the tables so that your guy is chasing you instead of you wondering about him? Are you tired of wondering if you turn him on or off? You want to keep him, but he's losing interest. That game is now over for you. Here is an introduction to how he thinks and what he wants and what drives him crazy. Count them: 1,2,3,4,5 - that's right, 5 secrets he will never tell you.

1. The number one, top of the list, must for your guy - RESPECT. It means admiration. Want to know what it looks like? You do not talk behind his back. It means you do not have too much freakin pride to compliment him. It means you do not always have to have your way.

2. Know what he likes and care about it too. That's right, research what he likes. Is it football? Soccer? Reading? Movies? You should know this.

Action Plan: Make a list of the 10 things he likes then arrange one. Surprise him with tickets to a football game or a movie or a gift card to a bookstore. When it nails down his like, he knows you care bout him...instant erection. You have entered his world, congratulations.

3. Make sure he knows you are on his side. Here is what you do not know - guys have very little when it comes to support. Men are not good at this. You be his support.

Action Plan: Verbalize support...for example, he is ranting about his boss or some person for whatever reason. Join in and be angry with him. Call the other guy a prick or asshole.

Never, never, never try to give the other guys point of view. Always be on your man's side. If he thinks you are not, you have created a gap.

4. He does not want to hear everything you want to say. OK, that's offensive to you. He is not trying to offend you, that is just how most guys roll.

Studies show women speak 20,000 words a day and guys about half that. Use up some of your with your girlfriends. If you do not, he will be drifting off and then you will really be offended.

5. When it comes to sex, most guys are a little insecure and vulnerable. He will never tell you that. But if you know it, then avoid scenes that add to his insecurity.

Have you noticed that he has lost interest in sex? It may simply be insecurity - and he may not know it himself.

Action Plan: Set up a win win situation. You win by having his intimacy and he wins by building security. So, when he is being affectionate or lovey-dovey, you run with it form there. You heard me right, guys love it when women take the initiative. When he gives a sign, you take over. Fireworks for you tonight!

These are mostly an excerpts and are condensed. But there is enough to make things begin to happen between you and your man. This is not intended to be all about him, and no relationship can ever work that way. But this article has enough room to only address this aspect. Remember the true saying, Want? Then give.

How to Win the Girl of Your Dreams in 5 Easy Steps

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Virtually all projects or goals of any size or importance require several steps during a period of time for it to complete. High-value projects and goals almost invariably require meticulous planning, several steps during a period of time and perseverance to stick to it to see the project right through to the finish. All of that is also true about anything like deciding to win the girl of your dreams. Deciding to win the girl of your dreams is not any different. Here's how to win the girl of your dreams in five simple steps.

Step 1. Don't be afraid of being embarrassed. This can be really crucial since if you are afraid of being embarrassed, you will never have the guts to ask the girl of your dreams out. Unless you really do that step, of being afraid of being embarrassed, it's going to make you nervous and insecure. Being nervous, afraid and insecure will not help you get your dream girl.

Step 2. Always be honest. Honesty is the key to get your girl. If you really like the girl who you are asking out, she will respond favourably if you are really honest with your intention. So whatever questions she asks of you, always be honest with your answers. The reason you'll need this is because she will think more highly of you. Even if you answer a question that she doesn't like, she will respect you more because of the self confidence and honesty that you show.

Step 3. Act straight forward. The reason behind this is to show your true intentions of having a relationship. You let the girl know that you want a relationship for the long haul and not a short fling In addition to that, you want to give the impression that you are a no nonsense gentleman who is not weak minded. You will show to her that you are a person that should get respect and that you are a perfect partner for her.

Step 4. Give her a bunch of flowers. To elaborate on that a bit, to show that you are not joking and wanting to be taken seriously, you have to present her with something that she can't dismiss.

Step 5. Keep trying until you succeed. Furthermore, you shouldn't give up until you have exhausted all your attempts to woo her. If you don't first succeed, keep trying until you do.

And so, having followed the above mentioned instructions to a "T", you should have succeeded and can now enjoy the fruits of this success. You can be a little bit proud of yourself and self-satisfied! You set your goal and today you have attained it! Now enjoy yourself!

If you did not keep to the above tips, too bad for you! Good luck to you anyway!

Why a Woman Shouldn't Approach a Man When She's Interested in Him

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I remember when I was single in my early twenties and a young lady approached me "I think you look good, can I have your number?" As I looked her up and down to see if she fit my requirements (I'll let you figure that one out) I gave her my number to give me a call. On my way home I thought, "Wow! She must really want me." Although I thought she was a sweet person, I thought I would use her to my advantage because she approached me first. I was right; she later on called me and was aggressive so I put her on the backburner and dealt with her when I had time. She wasn't priority when it came to my women because I knew I had her from day 1.

When a woman approaches a man, he thinks one of three things:
-She wants me
-She's a little too aggressive
-She's needy, desperate for a man

Since men are hunters by nature, they should approach women. When was the last time you seen a successful marriage when the woman forces the man to marry her?.......exactly. Women, make him work hard to get you. It's not that your playing games but make him earn your love. If your to easy to get he won't give you the honor you deserve. You deserve royalty! So stop making yourself seem desperate by approaching a man. If he's too shy to approach you, then he isn't the right one for you. He should have enough confidence to approach you.

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

How to Attract a Woman That is Out of Your League - Bring Her Down to Your Level

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Okay, so you have probably already heard the classic speech that every man gets about never putting a woman on a pedestal. But, have you actually used that advice? Most men don't. They meet a woman, they think she is beautiful, and they start to let their imagination run wild and think she is the greatest person in the world.

Next thing you know, you start to get nervous around her, and she seems like she is just totally out of your league. Face it, if you are going to be able to create attraction with a woman, then you are going to have to bring her down to YOUR level. Take her from that throne that you built, and you can immediately gain some ground.

Here's how to attract a woman that is out of your league:

1. Before you let your imagination run wild, flirt with her.

See, if you can get comfortable right away when flirting with a woman, then chances are that you will NOT put her on that pedestal, at least not too far up. The thing is, you have to do this immediately, or else your mind will betray you and start to idolize her and make her seem like she is way above your level.

2. Gain confidence and self esteem.

Most men will not admit it, it does not seem 'manly', but if you tend to put a woman on a pedestal, then you probably could use a little work on your "inner game." You need to get that self esteem and confidence up, so that you won't immediately think that she is somehow beyond your reach. Chances are, she is not, she just happens to be really pretty, that's all.

3. Discover how to make her feel sexual attraction.

A woman will date out of her league when the sexual attraction is strong enough. It's almost like she cannot resist it. If you are skilled at making a woman feel sexual attraction, then you can pretty much attract any woman that you want to. You can even be short, fat, broke, and still be able to grab yourself a beautiful woman. All you have to do is to make her feel those sexual feelings when she is with you and then it is game, set, and match!


Make a Man Want You and Want to Stay Forever

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Do you want to know how to make a man want you badly enough to chase you? Do you think that only certain types of girls can kindle desire in men? Do you think you have to be like them in order to make a man fall in love with you? If you think like this, you're on the wrong track. Take this dating advice and learn the real way to make a man want you and only you.

Yes, it's true. There are some girls who have perfect bodies and know how to show them off. These women attract men like flies. But do you want to attract flies or a man who will fall in love with you? Look into their history and these sex goddesses lives are filled with heartbreak. You can easily make a man want you for your body, but that will not win his heart.

Instead of looking at the flash-in-the-pan sex goddesses as your role model, look at women who have had successful long term loving relationships with men. Yes, they always look their best, but their most outstanding quality is their personality. They are not cookie-cutter beauties, but unique individuals. They are the one-and-only for their men because they are one-of-a-kind.

Ironically, the best way to make a man fall in love with you is to just be yourself and not care too much about whether or not you find "Mr. Right." That's not the same as being cold and indifferent. Love life and be interested in the lives of others, but be your own person first. That will set you apart from the others and attract the right man into your life.

When a man does come into your life who kindles your love, let him chase you. Men love the chase, so don't deny him that pleasure. You might be tempted to make the first move, but if you want to catch him and hold onto him, make him chase you first. He will want you even more if he is afraid he can't have you.

So you see, the last thing you want to do is try to be like other girls or try to act like you think guys want you to be. That will just make you part of the herd. Stand out from the crowd by being your own unique person. That's the real way to make a man want you and want to stay with you forever.

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Isn't it hard to know what men really want in a woman? Do they just want sex or do they want to really fall in love? Why is it so hard to make him commit? What is he afraid of? Guys are a mystery until you discover what men really want in a woman.

Part of the problem is that men don't know what they want themselves until the right girl comes along. If you asked a single guy what he wanted in a woman, the answer would be painfully simplistic and revolve around sex. If you took his word at face value, you would think you had to spend a fortune on breast implants and plastic surgery in order to give a man what he wants.

Save your money. Use it to buy yourself clothes that reflect your personality. Men end up going for the girls who have a unique aura about them. They are self-confident and intriguing looking. There's something about a girl that has that aura of confidence that makes men think beyond sex and want to get to know the person behind the body.

Being self confident isn't the same thing as being stand-offish. Truly confident people are always interested in others. When a cute guy approaches you, you don't need to pretend like you're not interested. The fact that you are interested in him will give him the courage to pursue you. The fact that you're not interested in him exclusively will make him feel like he has to work for you.

What men really want is a woman who makes them feel the confidence and self-respect that is lacking in their own life. They want to be admired and appreciated, but they also want their partner to be admired and appreciated as well. What they want is mutual respect. That's why, if a guy has to choose between a girl with a great body and a girl with a great mind and personality as a life partner, he'll choose the latter.

If you've got the body, great! That's a bonus. But don't neglect your other qualities. If you don't have the body of a supermodel, don't worry about it. Stay in shape and take care of your appearance, but show off your inner qualities the most. What men really want is a woman who is beautiful on the inside.


Surefire Ways to Make Your Man Commit

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Have you given up on trying to make your man commit? Do you believe that men are impossible and will never commit? Are you at your wit's end? If so, don't despair. Read on: there are actually some surefire ways to make your man commit.

Before you get too excited, look at those key words again: "make your man commit." It doesn't say "any man." This dating advice is for girl's who already have a man they are seeing regularly. The strategy you use will depend on how long you've been seeing each other and how far he's progressed towards making a commitment to you.

If you've only been going out for a little while and the guy is either still dating other girls or spending a lot of time with his buddies, you just need to make every moment together count. Try to steer your dates away from parties and clubs and towards more intimate surrounds. A day out together is a great way to get to know each other. Find something to do together that he will enjoy as much as you do. The trick is to make your activities together unique and better than the things he does every day. That will make you stand out as special in his mind.

If you have been dating for a long time and neither of you is seeing anybody else, then it's commitment time. For you, that comes easily. For him, it doesn't. He will resist the change, especially if he is reasonably happy with the life he already has. He may be afraid to rock the boat for fear of losing his friends or his freedom. Your job is to make him realize that a commitment to you is not a loss, but a gain.

You may have to make him realize what he'll be losing if he loses you before he'll be willing to give up his imagined freedom. Would having the freedom to date other girls be better than having you at his side? Make him know that the answer to that question is "No!" but that he is going to have to decide.

If all else fails, you may need to show him that you can live without him. Don't jump every time he asks you out. Don't call him on the phone. Make him call you. If he feels you're drifting away from him, it may be enough to make him realize that he is in love with you.

Remember, these techniques will only work on a man you already feel a bond with. No matter what the dating advice gurus tell you, you can't make just any man commit to you. However, if you follow this advice, you can make your man commit to you.


Be Observed By Hot Girls: Where To Begin

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There is no such thing as a 24 hour pickup specialist, but with the right tools and mental attitude, a male can become one in almost no time at all. To be observed by hot girls, the alpha male points you have must be easily seen. An encompassing presence in a club or bar will tell everyone quickly who the alpha male is. To control other guys is to properly exhibit to a girl that she ought to be drawn to your top dog quality. There are certainly ideas you must recognize prior to becoming a force in seducing numerous women:

1. If a male is at a bar or club and encounters a female he wants to go out with, she would be identified as his "target."

2. Most pickup gurus and master seduction teachers acknowledge that getting a potential partner attracted to you enough to return home with you takes anywhere from 2 to 4 hours.

3. The limitless components a male can present to provide evidence to society he is an alpha male can include: leading a form of dialogue, having fantastic posture, or beaming each time he approaches a cluster of people.

4. To pick up a girl a male must never ever display weakness in his feelings in front of her.

5. Never ever ignore the power of being engaging and courteous to a group of females, even if you are only interested in hooking one of them.

6. To be the focal point in a pub or otherwise usually means being super quick on your toes or using personalized anecdotes to allow everyone with you to chill out and have a good time in your company.

7. "Multi-threading" is an expression used by seduction gurus to illustrate ways in which a person can add several subjects of interest in discussion to give yourself time in gaining a female's focus on you.

8. Ignoring the woman you ultimately wish to court or mate with in the beginning disqualifies a man as a prospective suitor, and thus makes her more intrigued.

9. A universal compatibility switch for females is watching a male that is attempting to connect with them already have women in his group showing he is accustomed to having high standing.

10. Many times the energy where you encounter a girl is too excessive, and when this is the situation a man ought to make an effort to bring the female somewhere that he can be heard.

11. Examples of high social status in the form of a companion of yours making you seem successful in conversing with women is very beneficial.

12. Sometimes it is essential to "neg" your target of interest temporarily, which means tactfully reduce her status to make her think you are not interested in seducing her.

13. Guys are consistently anxious at the concept of courting a woman alongside additional men, but if you find a mutual understanding with them they will allow you to be part of their party.

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Seducing Girls: The Quickest Ways To Improve

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Seducing girls is simply not something men can learn instantaneously, but with preparation, becoming a guru in the arena of dating is attainable. Traits that are generally known as alpha male in nature are the crux of what it takes to court or attract a young lady. An overwhelming presence in a club or bar will tell the room instantly who the alpha male is. To guide other adult males is to properly display to a woman that she ought to be attracted to your top dog traits. Want to improve at dating? Pay attention:

1. A "target" in the field of attraction is the person you are keen on and would prefer to return home with.

2. Usually it takes in between 2 and 4 hours for a woman to be into you sufficiently to exit a bar or club in your arm and return to your house or apartment.

3. There are several things that a male can do to exhibit he is an alpha male like being loud in conversing, expressing wealth in some fashion, or being in the company of various girls.

4. Talking to unknown people without hesitation indicates to a female you are not afraid of the public effects.

5. A female's friends will normally accept you before the female of your desires does, and this will make courting her so much simpler.

6. To be self conscious is to damage your chances of departing with a female, so you should throw caution into the wind and employ wit to make new friends.

7. Using just 1 subject to chat with when attempting to interest a girl will not be effective, and as such, a number of things should be mentioned so she can pick what she likes investing in the most.

8. In the event you observe a female you believe is ideal and want to peak her interest it is a great idea to get acquainted with her pals and pretend as if she is invisible to bamboozle her emotions.

9. A guy that has several women surrounding him regularly illustrates such high standing that it is typically tricky for a female to get that mental visualization out of her head.

10. Building comfort with the opposite sex is at times very challenging to do in a pub or nightclub, so normally it is prudent to" bounce", or jump to a different quieter locale.

11. Attending a watering hole or nightclub with other men is ideal because they can cut into your courting of a woman about five minutes in to indicate that you are warm and sociable.

12. A fine way to make a woman feel more self conscious than you is to tell her that her nostrils wiggle as she speaks, which makes her more vulnerable to listening to what you want to say.

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Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Make Men Like You - Draw Men to You Like Never Before

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Do you think you're lacking that magic gene that would have men liking you? Have you noticed how men just seem to look right past you and you don't know why? Do you think you're relatively good looking and you don't get what's going on? Get started on the right track with this article.

Some women were taught a lot of old fashion rules when it comes to dating and many of them haven't been able to update those rules and make them pertinent to today's dating scene.

For instance, many women were taught to be demure, naive and submissive. Some have even been told to diminish their intellect so as not to intimidate any perspective mate.

But men today don't really want a wishy-washy woman who doesn't have a mind of her own. They want to be able to have an intelligent conversation and enjoy the fact that women are so independent and self reliant.

However, there remains a delicate line you don't want to cross over. As independent as you might be, to get a relationship going in the right direction you still want to be able to show him that he has an important place in your life.

You also want to be careful not to create too much of an air of competition. Some women have become reluctant to allow the man to win any points on any level. They want so desperately to prove themselves better on every count and while they may think they're impressing the guy with all their know how, they might actually be turning the guy off with their abrasive, if not condescending attitude.

Be proud of yourself, but leave him room to be proud of himself as well.

Men want to be where they feel good and this is what will ultimately draw them to you. Sure, you have to take into consideration that looks will ultimately play a role in this. A guy enjoys being with a girl who presents herself in a pleasing manner and who seems to care about her appearances.

And finally, there is one lesson from the past you should adhere to. Back in the day the girls who went to bed with a guy too soon was often seen as a tramp. As modern as we've become and as free as sex can be today, that notion still holds true to a great extent.

Though you might find this unfair, it still remains a fact. The serious minded guy who is looking for a women with whom to build a life with will look at the girl who flaunts all her attributes and leaves with a different guy every night and think, no. And if you're honest with yourself, faced with a guy who had bedded every woman in the place and then some, would you really consider him for a lifelong mate?

Let him see, first and foremost, that you have something to say, something interesting to bring and are emotionally stable enough to actually build a relationship with. The sex will come later. If anything, the sex will be all the greater due to the great anticipation you'll have built, but also because you'll have had a chance to build an emotional bond, one that will keep you together even after the sex is over.

How Men Can Be More Attractive to Women

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Wouldn't it be great if you could read women's minds so we know exactly what they are looking for in a man? Well, as a woman I may be able to shed some light on this issue. You know how girls love to chat, so here is the main areas men should be looking at if they want to become more attractive to women.

Most women expect the male to be masterful, to be able to take control with confidence. Yes, there are women who like to boss men around but they are in the minority. A woman likes men that are strong in the body and strong in the mind. They don't like sheepish wimps and ditherers, they want a commanding male who can make decisions with confidence. A little forceful so you mean business can be a very impressive attribute.

Forget about bulging biceps, a woman likes her man to be toned, physically fit in all areas, especially the chest and backside. Bodybuilding pretenders are a real turnoff. You have to look as though you care about your weight and shape so spending a few nights at the local gym should have positive effects.

Women a very big on personal hygiene. Smelly feet are a real turn-off, along with dirty finger nails, unshaven faces, body odor and bad breath. The only one of these which you may get away with is designer stubble so unshaven faces could be the one that should not cause you too many problems.

Women love to run their fingers through your hair so don't cut it too short. As long as a ladies fingers can run through it you will be fine. Hairy backs are a real nightmare for men and women. It's painful to have it waxed and removed but your lady will thank you for it. Hairy chests on the other hand are fine. Shaven chests are optional. Designer aftershave or body spray is very attractive to women.

A woman loves a man to look smart at all times. Avoid jeans that drag on the floor, shorts, baseball caps and very lose clothing are a turn-off. Designer jeans with shoes, shirt and lose jacket is very attractive along with suits and ties on special occasions. Avoid training shoes that have seen better days.

A sense of humor is a wonderful attribute to have. Women like to laugh, well most of them anyway. Some tasteful jokes will go a long way to breaking the ice and will relax a woman. Pay attention when a woman is speaking, if she thinks you are not listening or even worse, not interested, then you have just caused a real problem.

Buy your woman little trinkets, nothing major or expensive. It just shows that you are thinking of her and want to make her happy so a little teddy bear or soft toy is a really good move. Allow a women to have her opinion, don't just presume she agrees with you. She has her own mind so let her have a say in decision making.

Be punctual, if you say you are going to call then do so. Never be late on a date and always be there first. Women start to feel very used and taken for granted if they show up first. If she's late then say nothing or make a little joke out of it.

But more than anything, be yourself. Don't put on some false persona because it will only have a very limited shelf life and the real you will show through in time. Just get into good habits and the rest will follow naturally. If you hit it off great, if not then maybe this one is not for you.

4 Tips to Making Her Feel Special

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"Learn How to Treat a Woman with Love"

Here is a sad commentary about our society; many men do not have any idea how to treat a woman. Honestly, they are either completely lost, clueless or they just do not care.

The good news is that you do care; and because of this, there is something you can do to change this.

It really is just all about observation, patience and understanding. Of course, you are probably going to want to throw a little bit of practice and trial and error into that mix. However, if you are determined enough, a few simple tips will go a long way towards your goal of learning how to treat a woman.

1. Be Upfront with Her

Believe it or not, women can tell when you are not being entirely truthful with them.

So here is an awesome idea, "Just do not lie to them".

Lying only insults her, so be honest and upfront with her. If you find that you have a problem with this, then do the both of you a favor and simply stop seeing her. Think about it, do you really want to be with someone you have to lie to.

2. Listen when She Speaks

She is not talking just to hear her own voice; so listen to her. Believe it or not, when you do this you will find out all sorts of intimate details about her life, her likes, her dislikes, and her wants. Truthfully, this is really all there is to it. Once you start listening to her, you will instantly become clued in about how to treat a woman.

3. Surprise her

Do not let your relationship grow stale. Surprise her, and do it often. This can be something as simple as buying her a flower or taking her out to her favorite restaurant. Or, it can be something extravagant like taking her on a surprise exotic getaway or buying her an expensive piece of jewelry. The key is that you are making an effort, and this is really what she wants.

4. Treat Her like an Equal

She is not fragile and she will not break if you handle her too rough, so treat her like an equal. If you want to know how to treat a woman, then you basically have to stop focusing on the fact that she is a woman. Sure it is nice to pay the dinner bill and open her door, but remember there is a fine line between chivalry and chauvinist.

Seducing Gorgeous Girls Fast - Tips to Use

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Growing into a guru in the universe of seducing gorgeous girls can't be achieved in 1 day, but limitless drive and determination make it possible faster than you ever hoped. Traits that are often known as alpha male in the wild are the heart of what it takes to court or seduce a young girl. In modern nature, the alpha male serves as the overriding force in its group of peers. To steer other guys is to adequately show to a female that she ought to be attracted to your leader attributes. Becoming familiar with dating tips and attraction terminology enables you to be irresistible to women. Major concepts are detailed below:

1. If a guy is at a venue and encounters a woman he wishes to date, she would be regarded as his "target."

2. Nearly every guide you read on picking up women will explain to you that at the very least a 2 hour window is required to get the woman. you choose to comply in exiting with you.

3. The endless attributes a man can exhibit to establish to the modern world he is an alpha male include: leading an open line of communication, possessing great posture, or smiling anytime he encounters a number of individuals.

4. Chatting to strangers without doubt displays to a female you are not afraid of the cultural repercussions.

5. Do not undervalue the effectiveness of being engaging and polite to a collection of girls, even if you are primarily interested in hooking one of them.

6. To be the center of attention in a club or otherwise typically means being super quick on your toes or using personalized experiences to allow everyone close to you to chill out and have a fantastic time in your presence.

7. "Multi-threading" is an expression chosen by seduction artists to detail ways in which a person can combine numerous topics of interest in conversation to give yourself time in getting a female's undivided attention.

8. Providing mixed signals to a girl you have just met in a public area is useful because it triggers her emotions to get included in the scenario, predominantly if you are talking with her acquaintances but not her.

9. Women all over the community respect males who are always surrounded by other women because it displays a tribal leader type standing.

10. Many times the volume level where you become acquainted with a girl is too great, and when this is the situation a guy should really try to take the girl someplace that he can be heard.

11. Examples of high status in the form of a friend of yours making you sound successful in conversing with females is quite effective.

12. Once a girl tells a male that is attempting to attract her that she is simply not interested, it is a great time for him to act as if he was never invested by immediately chatting to her friends.

13. A woman with other men is actually less difficult to seduce than a woman in the company of other girls because men can be won over far more quickly than females.

Monday, July 26, 2010

Flirting Tips for Women

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Women can send genuine signals to men that that they want to meet them, without coming across as flirtatious, too forward and perceived as being "easy." The following approaches should apply to women in a variety of environments: the sandwich shop near the office, the supermarket, the library, the walking/jogging path in a park, the doctor's office or other places that are not threatening (such as a bar) or staged (a singles event). The approaches work for me but not necessarily for other men. First of all, a woman can seize the initiative by striking up a conversation with a man whom she sees in public and finds attractive. If you are in a casual location such as a deli, invite him to sit next to you. In a short conversation, you can find out a lot about him and determine whether you want to get to him better. By skillfully asking questions, you can find out quickly whether he is available for a potential relationship.

The First Thing a Man Notices

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In a recent survey of almost 200 men, we asked the question: "What is the first thing you notice when you look at a woman?"

Here are the results

53 Respondents: Her eyes
33 Respondents: Her smile / Her mouth
32 Respondents: Her body
15 Respondents: Her hair
14 Respondents: Her apparent level of self-confidence
3 Respondents: Her clothes
* 2 Respondents: Her skin

What Women Want


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What Women Want by Shari Mindlen
A woman, more than anything else, wants to be cherished. And she wants to be with a man who will cherish her, value her and make her feel safe.

She wants a man she can trust. Trust allows her to be vulnerable and receptive to him.

Women don't want Mr. Macho, they want Super Hero. Super Heroes are good guys who are a little sensitive, can be vulnerable, and are not afraid to show their feelings.

Super Heroes know they have feelings and they know it's okay to have them. They are confident that they have "the right stuff", which makes them very attractive to women. Every guy could be a Super Hero since every girl wants to make her man her hero.

Most women want a relationship with a good guy, not just a Saturday night date or meal ticket.

How Men Love to Be Kissed

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Ahhh…kissing, snogging, making out, no matter what you call it, for something so important (and fun!) there is not a lot of advice out there on how to do it really well. How often do men tell you exactly how they are dying to be kissed and what moves make them turn to mush?

You want to know these things! So we at GetRomantic.com surveyed over 2000 women and asked them: “How do you love to be kissed?”. Below is a sampling of the responses received, word-for-word!

“One word: EARS! I cannot get enough kisses on my ears! I also love to have my hair played with.” (Brad, 26)
“I love it when my partner holds the back of my head while we kiss, and runs her fingers through my hair as we kiss.” (Shawn, 23)

How to Get Her in the Mood

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For the typical woman, however, the story is much different. It takes about 24 hours of romantic foreplay for a woman to become aroused. By foreplay, I’m not talking about hugging, kissing, and caressing-although all of that is perfectly fine, especially during the final few minutes of the 24-hour period. No, I’m talking about Random Acts of Sexiness, which are all of the things that a man can do to make his woman feel loved, accepted, important and, most important, sexy.

Ways to Seduce Your Man

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The next time you go out for dinner in a group that includes your beau, wear your sexiest panties. During the meal excuse yourself to the bathroom and remove them, ball them up in your palm, and secretly pass them under the table to your lover when you get back.

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