The best way to guide your woman through a crowd is to place your hand against the small of her back. This small gesture shows that you feel protective of her without being too pushy like an arm around the shoulder might be. When you’re alone, kissing or licking down her spine to end up with a kiss on the small of her back will get her heart racing.
Saturday, August 7, 2010
places women want to be touched
The best way to guide your woman through a crowd is to place your hand against the small of her back. This small gesture shows that you feel protective of her without being too pushy like an arm around the shoulder might be. When you’re alone, kissing or licking down her spine to end up with a kiss on the small of her back will get her heart racing.
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
How To Make A Woman Feel Really Special
“How To Make A Woman Feel Really Special”
Today I am going to show you how to make a
woman feel “unqiue” and “special”. In fact, you can
use this tip to make ANYONE feel unique or spcial!
Most people wish they were somehow “different”
or “above” the rest of society, and you can use this to
your advantage.
After you’ve talked to a person for a little
while, let them know how “different” you think they are.
They will be very flattered.
This does not mean you have to “lie” about
anything.
Remember that a successful leader can often see
things in people that most other people do not notice.
After all, that is what a leader does – he sees the best
in people, helps them become their best, and gets them
to offer him assistance. He knows that in order to achieve
his vision, he’ll need other people with expertise and
skills that he doesn’t have himself.
In short, leadership requires you to look at a
person and pick out something that the person can do
better than you.
There’ll always be things that other people can
do better than you, and you should acknowledge that
as a leader.
Here are a few examples:
“I wish I knew how to
“I wish I could
“You’ve gotta show me how to
one day.”
“I should hire you as my
“You know…I’ve met a lot of people…but you’re the
first person I’ve met who
Try to pick out something that most other people
do not see in the person. Don’t bother to repeat the obvious.
By now, you should know what the person REALLY wants.
Compliment them on those!
The person is going to want to come back for more!
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
How to Attract a Woman That is Out of Your League - Bring Her Down to Your Level
Next thing you know, you start to get nervous around her, and she seems like she is just totally out of your league. Face it, if you are going to be able to create attraction with a woman, then you are going to have to bring her down to YOUR level. Take her from that throne that you built, and you can immediately gain some ground.
Here's how to attract a woman that is out of your league:
1. Before you let your imagination run wild, flirt with her.
See, if you can get comfortable right away when flirting with a woman, then chances are that you will NOT put her on that pedestal, at least not too far up. The thing is, you have to do this immediately, or else your mind will betray you and start to idolize her and make her seem like she is way above your level.
2. Gain confidence and self esteem.
Most men will not admit it, it does not seem 'manly', but if you tend to put a woman on a pedestal, then you probably could use a little work on your "inner game." You need to get that self esteem and confidence up, so that you won't immediately think that she is somehow beyond your reach. Chances are, she is not, she just happens to be really pretty, that's all.
3. Discover how to make her feel sexual attraction.
A woman will date out of her league when the sexual attraction is strong enough. It's almost like she cannot resist it. If you are skilled at making a woman feel sexual attraction, then you can pretty much attract any woman that you want to. You can even be short, fat, broke, and still be able to grab yourself a beautiful woman. All you have to do is to make her feel those sexual feelings when she is with you and then it is game, set, and match!
Make a Man Want You and Want to Stay Forever
Yes, it's true. There are some girls who have perfect bodies and know how to show them off. These women attract men like flies. But do you want to attract flies or a man who will fall in love with you? Look into their history and these sex goddesses lives are filled with heartbreak. You can easily make a man want you for your body, but that will not win his heart.
Instead of looking at the flash-in-the-pan sex goddesses as your role model, look at women who have had successful long term loving relationships with men. Yes, they always look their best, but their most outstanding quality is their personality. They are not cookie-cutter beauties, but unique individuals. They are the one-and-only for their men because they are one-of-a-kind.
Ironically, the best way to make a man fall in love with you is to just be yourself and not care too much about whether or not you find "Mr. Right." That's not the same as being cold and indifferent. Love life and be interested in the lives of others, but be your own person first. That will set you apart from the others and attract the right man into your life.
When a man does come into your life who kindles your love, let him chase you. Men love the chase, so don't deny him that pleasure. You might be tempted to make the first move, but if you want to catch him and hold onto him, make him chase you first. He will want you even more if he is afraid he can't have you.
So you see, the last thing you want to do is try to be like other girls or try to act like you think guys want you to be. That will just make you part of the herd. Stand out from the crowd by being your own unique person. That's the real way to make a man want you and want to stay with you forever.
Tuesday, July 27, 2010
How Men Can Be More Attractive to Women
Wouldn't it be great if you could read women's minds so we know exactly what they are looking for in a man? Well, as a woman I may be able to shed some light on this issue. You know how girls love to chat, so here is the main areas men should be looking at if they want to become more attractive to women.
Most women expect the male to be masterful, to be able to take control with confidence. Yes, there are women who like to boss men around but they are in the minority. A woman likes men that are strong in the body and strong in the mind. They don't like sheepish wimps and ditherers, they want a commanding male who can make decisions with confidence. A little forceful so you mean business can be a very impressive attribute.
Forget about bulging biceps, a woman likes her man to be toned, physically fit in all areas, especially the chest and backside. Bodybuilding pretenders are a real turnoff. You have to look as though you care about your weight and shape so spending a few nights at the local gym should have positive effects.
Women a very big on personal hygiene. Smelly feet are a real turn-off, along with dirty finger nails, unshaven faces, body odor and bad breath. The only one of these which you may get away with is designer stubble so unshaven faces could be the one that should not cause you too many problems.
Women love to run their fingers through your hair so don't cut it too short. As long as a ladies fingers can run through it you will be fine. Hairy backs are a real nightmare for men and women. It's painful to have it waxed and removed but your lady will thank you for it. Hairy chests on the other hand are fine. Shaven chests are optional. Designer aftershave or body spray is very attractive to women.
A woman loves a man to look smart at all times. Avoid jeans that drag on the floor, shorts, baseball caps and very lose clothing are a turn-off. Designer jeans with shoes, shirt and lose jacket is very attractive along with suits and ties on special occasions. Avoid training shoes that have seen better days.
A sense of humor is a wonderful attribute to have. Women like to laugh, well most of them anyway. Some tasteful jokes will go a long way to breaking the ice and will relax a woman. Pay attention when a woman is speaking, if she thinks you are not listening or even worse, not interested, then you have just caused a real problem.
Buy your woman little trinkets, nothing major or expensive. It just shows that you are thinking of her and want to make her happy so a little teddy bear or soft toy is a really good move. Allow a women to have her opinion, don't just presume she agrees with you. She has her own mind so let her have a say in decision making.
Be punctual, if you say you are going to call then do so. Never be late on a date and always be there first. Women start to feel very used and taken for granted if they show up first. If she's late then say nothing or make a little joke out of it.
But more than anything, be yourself. Don't put on some false persona because it will only have a very limited shelf life and the real you will show through in time. Just get into good habits and the rest will follow naturally. If you hit it off great, if not then maybe this one is not for you.