Wednesday, August 4, 2010

How To Flirt On the Phone

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“How To Flirt On the Phone”

Today I am going to teach you the proper way to flirt
on the phone.

Flirting on the phone is a lot like flirting in person.
You tease a woman and act playful. But what’s different about
flirting on the phone is that you’re mostly relying on
your voice instead of your body language.

Unlike talking to a woman in person, you can’t use
any body language when you are talking on the phone. This
creates a big problem, as according to scientists more
than 93 percent of our communication is based on non-verbal
communication.

What this means is that you should pay EXTRA
ATTENTION to your voice tone whenever you talk to a
woman you’re interested in on the phone.

So here’s the secret to flirting on the phone:

USE YOUR FLIRTY VOICE!

From the moment you say “hello” on the phone with
a woman, I want you to use your flirty, playful voice. Don’t
start using it in the middle of the conversation. Start
using it RIGHT AWAY. (For the same reason you want to make
physical contact with a woman as soon as possible while on
a first date…so that it won’t become awkward when you
finally touch her.)

If you’re uncomfortable with using your flirty
voice, then you really need to open up and be more playful.
I can promise you that if you never flirt or be playful
with women, you’re not going to have much success in
dating. Women are just going to talk to you because they
think you’re a good “friend”.

Here is a good exercise for developing a flirty
voice:

Imagine the person you’re talking to is in the
same room with you and you’re flirting with her on the
couch. Her face is just inches away from yours, and
there’s some intense eye contact going on. Now adopt
the same expression on your face and body language with
you body. Finally, project all of this to the woman
you’re talking to by slowing down your speech just a bit –
especially on the vowels.

Chances are…she’s going to “see” you through
your voice!

How To Make A Woman Feel Really Special

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“How To Make A Woman Feel Really Special”

Today I am going to show you how to make a
woman feel “unqiue” and “special”. In fact, you can
use this tip to make ANYONE feel unique or spcial!

Most people wish they were somehow “different”
or “above” the rest of society, and you can use this to
your advantage.

After you’ve talked to a person for a little
while, let them know how “different” you think they are.
They will be very flattered.

This does not mean you have to “lie” about
anything.

Remember that a successful leader can often see
things in people that most other people do not notice.
After all, that is what a leader does – he sees the best
in people, helps them become their best, and gets them
to offer him assistance. He knows that in order to achieve
his vision, he’ll need other people with expertise and
skills that he doesn’t have himself.

In short, leadership requires you to look at a
person and pick out something that the person can do
better than you.

There’ll always be things that other people can
do better than you, and you should acknowledge that
as a leader.

Here are a few examples:

“I wish I knew how to .”

“I wish I could .”

“You’ve gotta show me how to
one day.”

“I should hire you as my assistant.”

“You know…I’ve met a lot of people…but you’re the
first person I’ve met who .”

Try to pick out something that most other people
do not see in the person. Don’t bother to repeat the obvious.
By now, you should know what the person REALLY wants.
Compliment them on those!

The person is going to want to come back for more!

Sunday, August 1, 2010

The Hidden Messages of Flowers

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Throughout time, flowers have been a symbol of emotion, and used to communicate thoughts and feelings when simple words just don't suffice. Flowers are often sent to celebrate good news, to offer condolences during times of loss, or simply to let another person know he is loved and appreciated. In this way, florists are the silent messengers of the world, skilled in putting together a beautiful bouquet that will help you get to the heart of the feelings you wish to convey to another.

Back in the Victorian era, the selection of flowers available was far more limited, and it was commonplace for people to send flowers to one another to communicate a non-verbal message. Since each flower had a handful of meanings, it was often up to the recipient to determine exactly which was the most applicable, in order to decode the message being sent. In this way, messages passed from one person to another were not able to be easily intercepted, and commonplace events such as secret trysts, long-standing grudges, and infidelities were able to be hidden behind the most ordinary of symbols---the flower.

Although many florists today are well-educated in the historical meanings of flowers, most of them have fallen into disuse. While red roses are still the traditional gift of love and passion, they are also used to express congratulations, to commemorate a special event, or simply to say "I'm thinking of you". The meaning of a particular flower or bouquet comes more from the flower itself and the artistry of the florist; smell, touch, and sight all contribute to the strong emotional reaction many people have to receiving flowers, and a well-designed bunch of blossoms will not only delight the senses, but deliver a message to the recipient.

With technology bringing the world closer together, the options for florists have become far less limited. It's become a much easier process to obtain a particular bloom from another part of the country, or even from overseas. The handful of flowers known to the Victorians has literally become a worldwide catalogue of thousands, giving both florists and consumers more options for self-expression. Times may change fairly rapidly, but the popularity of flowers has never waned, and shows no sign of doing so anytime soon. While not many things in life remain constant, a bloom is worth more than a thousand words.

How Age Affects Relationship

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Big age gaps between a husband and wife sometimes happen. Although it is not common but it does exist in many marriages. It may be the husband is older, as this is more common, but there are many couples out there where it's actually the wife with more years under her belt. Either way, these do exist and they're probably more common than you think. Many people think these are unconventional and may have the bearings of a marriage that won't work. You could then ask a question if this kind of relationship works. Is this kind of marriage successful?

Most of the people will think that the marriage with big age gap doesn't work most especially if the gap is more than 11 years. This could be likewise true especially if the one older is the woman. Men normally like to have children but what if the wife cannot give it to the husband because of her age or some to other reasons or vice versa. This is a big problem then and could even lead to separation.

One reason also is because of this big age gap the husband and wife evidently differ in each other's interest.

Well, some however, before they get married, they agree and make compromises in things that they differ. But eventually in their marriage, the young still wants to enjoy a lot of things which the older one may consider those things as waste of time because he/she has gone through them.

Another one is the relationship between each other. Apparently because they differ in age, they differ also in many ideas. The younger one may think the older one as old fashioned and may treat the other partner as his/her father/mother. On the other way around, the older one will treat also the younger partner as his/her child.

Nevertheless, if the parties are almost of same age, or the age gap is not so big, their level of maturity also don't differ too much. They could then agree in many things, interests, ideas, opinions and choices in life. So the bonding is very strong and course they will be living most of the time happy and contented with each other.

In time, however, partners and a lot of people already think big age gap is not a big deal. What is important is that the couple wholeheartedly accept, adjust and treat with each other as truly husband and wife.

Tips For Becoming a Pick Up Specialist

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There is certainly no such thing as a 24 hour pick up specialist, but with the applicable tools and approach, a male can turn out to be one in almost no time at all. Qualities that are known as alpha male in the wild are the crux of what it takes to court or attract a young female. Alpha male features are facets shown by prominent males. Due to the fact that alpha males usually tend to lead their peers, women are attracted to their ability to set themselves aside from others. To captivate women of all ages, an understanding of seduction language, suggestions and alpha dog characteristics are important, and covered below:

1. Pick up artists name the girls you deal with in social settings "targets," and if they're in a group of individuals they are classified as "sets."

2. Nearly all pick up artists and master seduction teachers concur that getting the opposite sex attracted to you enough to go home with you usually takes anywhere from 2 to 4 hours.

3. Having things roll off your back, telling interesting tales, and involving every new person you meet in dialogue are definitely three alpha male traits that females cannot resist.

4. To pick up a female a guy must never ever demonstrate weakness in his thoughts in front of her.

5. Never ever undervalue the power of being friendly and polite to an entire group of girls, even if you are solely interested in hooking one of them.

6. To be the center of attention in a pub or otherwise commonly means being super quick on your toes or using extremely funny anecdotes to let everyone with you to take it easy and have a nice time in your company.

7. "Multi-threading" is a label chosen by seduction artists to explain ways in which you can add several themes of interest in conversation to give yourself time in gaining a woman's focus on you.

8. Dismissing the woman you eventually wish to date or mate with initially disqualifies a male as a possible suitor, and thus makes her more invested.

9. A man that has many women around him regularly demonstrates such high standing that it is typically difficult for a woman to get that mental picture out of her mind.

10. Occasionally the volume level where you become acquainted with a girl is too great, and when this is the circumstance a male ought to attempt to bring the girl somewhere that he can be heard.

11. Any time a man is trying to attract a girl, it is incredible how quickly she can be invested by a guy's friend stepping into the conversation and talking up his buddy.

12. From time to time it is necessary to "neg" your target temporarily, which means politely reduce her value to make her consider you are not focused on courting her.

13. Men are consistently anxious at the notion of seducing a girl associating with other guys, but if you find a mutual understanding with them they will permit you to be part of their party.

Getting a New Girlfriend Tips

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There are a million ways to learn how find a new girlfriend. We guys are looking for a new girlfriends for a variety of reasons - that does not only include sexual pleasures, but because we feel bored and want to have someone to talk to and spend time together at the bars or clubs. Being single can be hard as you feel tired of loneliness and you heart wants to find someone special, important for you.

Most guys have a hard time attracting a new girlfriend as they have too many theories what will work to attract a new women and what can cause a failure. These are some tips on how to get a new girlfriend:

  • Flirting with women on the go - if you are a guy who can flirt with women wherever you go, it will greatly increase your chances on getting a new girlfriend.
  • Look for a new girlfriend in a places where single women can be found - bars and night clubs can be successful, but you should always consider some other unusual places to find your new girlfriend.
  • Build your attraction skills - this is the key to your success. Ask yourself, if you are good at something? Do you have some skills that could attract women - maybe you are a good singer or a dancer? How are your conversation skills? Build your confidence and approach women with the belief in your eyes.
  • Know what women you want - what "type" of women are you interested in? What are the priorities your new girlfriend should have: level of education, social background, body type, race, etc.

Attraction to a women is one thing, but more important are the feelings you build up with your partner. On line dating for example has some advantages and disadvantages for both guys and girls. The advantage off course of joining a dating site is that women are looking for a boyfriend. You can try a well known dating sites called "Friendfinder" or "eHarmony". So don't get depressed if you fail one time, there are a million of beautiful single women around the World looking for that perfect guy to build up a relationship.

Get a Girl's Number on Facebook

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Why would you want to game people on Facebook and is that even possible?

It's very hard in life to keep friendships up, people grow up and change from a month to month basis and unless you've got regular contact with people they quickly change their lives and exist without you. I don't really recommend adding people on Facebook who aren't on the surrounds of your social circle. But what I do recommend is bumping into people at parties and events and adding them.

How do you go about adding girls on Facebook?

You need to be adding people you meet on Facebook, its Important you introduce yourself to people using your FULL NAME then they are inclined to give you their full name back. Shake their hand and be formal but also fun and then you can have all their details to later add them on Facebook, ask what they do and where they are from to ensure you add the right person.

"Hey... My names Vince Lynch (Said with authority) me and my friends are looking for a cool place to meet some great people, do you know any?"

"What's your name by the way? You look pretty fun, I mean check out those shoes!"

If they say only their first name i.e. Jenny, you say, Jenny? And they should complete and say their full name.

The day after meeting people you should add them on Facebook without explanation and avoid the first conversation when you see them online the first time, the next time you see them hang about wait until they've been online for several minutes, then say 'Hey' don't jump into explaining yourself,

when you add people don't give a reason for adding them because it makes you come off defensive, and geeky. The alpha male doesn't explain himself, he's too busy having fun and meeting new people to bother so If I get an email saying 'why are you adding me' I tend just to email my phone number back and not say anything else; to imply that it's not me who is social inept but the girl I'm getting close with clearly isn't socially aware enough to be used to this type of game.

How to demonstrate higher value Facebook?

How should I organise my photographs.

I recommend that you block your tagged photos to your audience, and show only your best photos in your profile pictures, your best photos are photos where girls think your most hot, you should ask for opinion from your sisters, or close female friends, even your mother.

I also recommend that you build pre-selection by women by displaying a lot of different girls, in multiple pictures or preferably in a single picture; these should be women of value not just anyone. You should be uninterested in the girls in your pictures, and you should choose photos where you look like your 'on top of the world' and preferably smiling but without looking like a toothpaste advert.

How do I show that people are interested in the things I say?

Every status you give should have a lot of comment replies, one way to achieve this is to write interesting statuses, you should never address your entire audiences because it doesn't value people for their individual qualities and shows that your indiscriminate about your personal relations.

If you want replies from people you should talk about topics similar to what they have been talking about recently but with your own original twist; and you should go about Facebook warming up audiences by commenting and 'like-ing' other people's statuses, by doing this you will be working a lot harder than the rest of Facebook and as a result you will get a lot of likes and comments on your status, pushing you to the top of the news feed, which in turn leads to a viral effect of even more comments.

How do I ensure that people think of me first and stalk my profile?

Putting a dash at the start of your name or having 'a' keeps you at the top of the friend list. When people scroll through their friends they will see you every time

The more people see of you, the more they will feel attracted to you. People like what they find familiar, they find that comfortable and they feel most confident and thus flirty around those people. Put a dash at the start of your name.

Taking Facebook sexual?

Track their Facebook activity for trends, when do they go online most often? For the majority of people its 7.30pm at night. With activity dipping on Tuesdays and Saturdays; however everyone is different, track the activity of the girl you like by looking at what times she wrote her previous statuses, or commented on friends pages, this is a good indicator of when she's online.

Turn your Facebook chat on during these times and bump into her online

Don't display too much interest and talk to them the moment they are online, wait and see if they talk first, you could simply not talk to them and see if they stay online just because your online.

Have the goal in sight, I think by the second conversation you need to be handing out your number, you can use the excuse "I'm out later with some cool people, if you decide to come out give me a text and we'll get a drink"

or "I don't really do chat, 07824992838" and go offline.

Other tips for building interest could involve jealously plot lines through photographs or by having another attractive girl commenting regularly on your wall; a little bit of competition can make a girl half interested into your biggest fan.

Remember the more effort and emotion someone puts into you the more they will feel like your their only option as a potential mate.

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