Searching for a Lifetime Partner

Searching for a lifetime partner can be difficult sometimes before. Today, with the assistance of dating agency, Christians are able to find their ideal partner faster and more efficient using the agencies database of individual bio-data.

The agencies have already uploaded their services on their websites, making it more convenient for their clients to access their services at the privacy of their homes. Yes, you can socialize through the internet.

This means you skip traffic and go straight to socializing with the person. It may not be a perfect environment, but the minimum requirements to communication are provided by the system.

To help you find someone who will fit your personality, the system requires that you feed the correct information about your personal data and other relevant information such as likes and dislikes, hobby, etc. The system also gives you some privacy as to whom you will show your complete profile.

Have You Ever Felt Fooled by a Man?

You stopped going out with your single girlfriends to places to meet guys. You stopped dating other men. And it appeared as if he wasn't seeing anyone else either. He never gave off that vibe, after all he was checking in everyday. He wouldn't have had the time. You made plans together. You were sure you were both on the same page.

Then you found out you were WRONG. He was either seeing other women or he had a girlfriend. He didn't plan for a future together, he was just playing it by ear, day by day. You had decided all this based on his behaviour, but you realise that no where did he ever say that he was into you in the way you wanted him to be. You presumed that because you felt that way then he probably did too.

YOU NEVER ACTUALLY ASKED HIM!

Why? Because you were operating out of fear the whole time. You never had "that" talk with him because it felt as if you might scare him fully away if you had a serious talk when you were having such a good time. You didn't want to talk about the terms of your relationship. He might have backed off if you had.

But because you played it this way then you missed out on a key ingredient. You didn't put yourself first. Unless you were leaving it to chance or playing it by ear. ( I don't know too many women who aren't secretly wanting their relationships to move forward to a deeper connection) But a man also knows you aren't putting yourself first if you're not having that talk or requiring anything of him.

And if it's all about his needs and not about yours, because you're too afraid to tell him what your needs are, then if he's not had that talk with you then he's probably taking you for granted. So instead of doing it on his terms, being supportive of him, tell him what you want and put your terms forward.

Resistance to Change

Here are five points to keep in mind if you are the one making changes in order to understand the impact on your partner.

1. When you start something new expect that there will be resistance. Initially you may have the support of your spouse however as time goes by and your partner is impacted by the change it is followed by resistance to the change.

2. If you realize that this is bound to happen you will be more understanding of your partners adjustment to dealing with the change.

3. If you are the one embarking on change you also will also be dealing with your feelings of worry and anxiety if you can really make it all work the way you hope. Talk about your feelings and hopefully your partner will also share his/her worries.

4. Be sensitive to the fact that your partner may be feeling left out of your excitement about doing something that you are passionate about.

5. Change is healthy in the long run but unsettling while it is going on for all in the relationship.

All About A Love Meter

A meter of love is a device that is supposed to measure the love compatibility between two people. This is done by typing in two names into the selected areas and then pressing a button which may say calculate. The love meter should fill up, and then you should be given a percentage number which will tell you how compatible you are with the other person.

Usually how this thing works is the device takes the letters from both your names, and sees how many letters there are the same in both names. This is rounded down until you are given the finally result of the compatibility. There are many different types of these devices, and these are usually found on the internet. The World Wide Web holds many different ones that you can choose from, and these can all do the same thing.

One thing you need to remember when using these to calculate your love compatibility is that they are only for fun. There are many people who think they actually do predict your love life, but in fact they cannot. So do not take them seriously if you do decide to have a little fun with them. So if you want to see whether you and your boyfriend or girlfriend were meant to be, then why not take a test on one of these and see what you can come up with, you may even have fun while doing it with your hoodies pulled well around your heads.

Sample Online Dating

As part of the Dating Tales series on providing sample online dating profile examples, here is our first online dating profile sample. Keep in mind that this is completely fictional and is only meant to give you an idea of what an online profile can look like.

Handle – HedgeCraig357
Name – Craig
Age – 32
Location – Des Moines
Seeking – Ambitious, career-oriented woman
Interests – Building my business, the History Channel, golf

About Me

Here I am all shiny and new to online dating. I finished grad school in ‘06 and since then I’ve spent little time in the bars or out and about meeting new people. In fact, if you don’t work downtown and aren’t interested in hedge funds, then there’s no way I would’ve met you before now.

Needless to say, my job has sort of overtaken my life and now I’m trying to get back on the bus and into the world of dating. First stop? Match.com.

I’d be lying if I said I didn’t want a relationship, I do. But I’m not about to just jump into one. I’m much more interested in meeting someone for a fun date and seeing where that takes us. I don’t jump into decisions at work and there’s no way I’ll jump into a relationship either. For now, I’m interested in going out, having fun, and getting to know someone who will respect my job and all the time it requires of me.

If it turns out we make better friends, great, and if it’s more than that, then even better.