Actions speak louder than words. Sure, words are important, but the real test is in what he actually does. Does he make decisions based on how they will affect both of you? Your guy should consult you before making any big decisions in his life.
For example, will he organize his work or holiday schedule around yours so you will be together as much as possible? This is a crucial test for any relationship and can be a telltale sign as to his true intentions. Watch how he introduces you to people, especially other women. He should proudly have his arm around you and present you as his girlfriend.
Companionship is preferred. A guy who really desires to be committed to you will prefer you as his companion of first choice. You just have to make sure that you're not his only companion or the excitement could dry up pretty quickly. He does want a relationship, but you must maintain the correct acceleration so he doesn't burn out.
Use wisdom when deciding to accompany him and base the decision off of how much time you've already spent together that week. Don't overdo it. Just because he always wants to be with you, which is a great sign, doesn't mean you have to accept his invitations.
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