You may well ask what is so special about EFT for couples compared to the more commonly-known talk methods. There are a number of advantages.
- With many kinds of talk therapy, the two parties are led towards a compromise. A compromise is certainly a solution that works. However, it may involve resentment and sacrifice. This is neither ideal for the relationship nor the feelings of the individuals.
- Many couples' differences arise from the negative emotions of the two individuals concerned. EFT has the power to completely remove these negative emotions. When they are out of the way, the person can think more clearly and logically. They can see the full picture rather than just their side of it. This is mirrored by their ensuing behavior, which in turn is more encouraging of caring behavior by their partner.
- Some individuals unwittingly bring extreme suffering from childhood into their relationships. Talk therapy is more about management of this suffering and its consequences in terms of feelings and behavior. EFT can totally release all the childhood trauma for an individual, thereby removing the root causes of the relationship discord.
- Some couple trouble involves deceit, blame, and resentment. Whilst one party is feeling (justifiably) resentful and angry for the other's misdemeanours, it is impossible to have peace and caring loving in the relationship. EFT can release the root causes of the deceitful partner's actions. And it gently and safely helps release the feelings of resentment and blame from the hurt partner. This allows the couple a fresh start in every sense.
- Regardless of method of conflict resolution, all couples have disagreements and arguments from time to time. A couple can learn a simple form of tapping to diffuse the intensity of an argument and lead naturally towards a calm resolution whenever needed.
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