“How To Flirt On the Phone”
Today I am going to teach you the proper way to flirt
on the phone.
Flirting on the phone is a lot like flirting in person.
You tease a woman and act playful. But what’s different about
flirting on the phone is that you’re mostly relying on
your voice instead of your body language.
Unlike talking to a woman in person, you can’t use
any body language when you are talking on the phone. This
creates a big problem, as according to scientists more
than 93 percent of our communication is based on non-verbal
communication.
What this means is that you should pay EXTRA
ATTENTION to your voice tone whenever you talk to a
woman you’re interested in on the phone.
So here’s the secret to flirting on the phone:
USE YOUR FLIRTY VOICE!
From the moment you say “hello” on the phone with
a woman, I want you to use your flirty, playful voice. Don’t
start using it in the middle of the conversation. Start
using it RIGHT AWAY. (For the same reason you want to make
physical contact with a woman as soon as possible while on
a first date…so that it won’t become awkward when you
finally touch her.)
If you’re uncomfortable with using your flirty
voice, then you really need to open up and be more playful.
I can promise you that if you never flirt or be playful
with women, you’re not going to have much success in
dating. Women are just going to talk to you because they
think you’re a good “friend”.
Here is a good exercise for developing a flirty
voice:
Imagine the person you’re talking to is in the
same room with you and you’re flirting with her on the
couch. Her face is just inches away from yours, and
there’s some intense eye contact going on. Now adopt
the same expression on your face and body language with
you body. Finally, project all of this to the woman
you’re talking to by slowing down your speech just a bit –
especially on the vowels.
Chances are…she’s going to “see” you through
your voice!
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