Thursday, August 5, 2010

Make a Guy Chase You - Make Him Love You and Want You

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It would be awesome to make him chase you, would it not? What would it be like to have him do the work rather than you pursuing him? Are you looking for affection and romance? Would you like to put an end to lonely nights and weekends? Are you looking for your soul mate? Join me for a great discussion on the subject. This is the real deal - how to make him chase you.

You could just attract men for friendship and be done with it. But we want more, right? Just about everybody wants to find a boyfriend, husband and lover. Men also are looking for a girlfriend and a wife. You just need to find the right guy and offer the right attraction. I can not tell you which guy is right for you, but I can tell you what the best attraction to feature is.

Do not do this:

Throwing yourself at him will not make a guy fall in love with you and will not make him commit his heart to you. In fact, if you are always available, always answering the phone immediately, always agreeing with him and always doing things for him without expecting anything in return, you are destroying your chances of having a meaningful relationship with him. Male psychology says he will have no respect for you and will not fall in love with you for it. This is not the way to make him chase you.

Do not look like you are looking for a sexual hookup. He will expect you to follow through and you will not know who he is: is he just looking for sex, or did he fall in love with you?

Do this:

Maintain your own identity. Keep your self respect. Show him some personal attention to let him know you are interested. But also make sure that you balance that with playing hard to get.

So, call him. Talk for a short time. Then excuse yourself and hang up.

Smile at him when you see him. Make it a big smile. But make it a short smile. You are letting him know that you want a relationship, but that you are not needy.

Good dating advice says to find the balance between these 2 things; showing personal attention and playing hard to get. It will give you the best chance of accomplishing your goal - to make him chase you.

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