Isn't it hard to know what men really want in a woman? Do they just want sex or do they want to really fall in love? Why is it so hard to make him commit? What is he afraid of? Guys are a mystery until you discover what men really want in a woman.
Part of the problem is that men don't know what they want themselves until the right girl comes along. If you asked a single guy what he wanted in a woman, the answer would be painfully simplistic and revolve around sex. If you took his word at face value, you would think you had to spend a fortune on breast implants and plastic surgery in order to give a man what he wants.
Save your money. Use it to buy yourself clothes that reflect your personality. Men end up going for the girls who have a unique aura about them. They are self-confident and intriguing looking. There's something about a girl that has that aura of confidence that makes men think beyond sex and want to get to know the person behind the body.
Being self confident isn't the same thing as being stand-offish. Truly confident people are always interested in others. When a cute guy approaches you, you don't need to pretend like you're not interested. The fact that you are interested in him will give him the courage to pursue you. The fact that you're not interested in him exclusively will make him feel like he has to work for you.
What men really want is a woman who makes them feel the confidence and self-respect that is lacking in their own life. They want to be admired and appreciated, but they also want their partner to be admired and appreciated as well. What they want is mutual respect. That's why, if a guy has to choose between a girl with a great body and a girl with a great mind and personality as a life partner, he'll choose the latter.
If you've got the body, great! That's a bonus. But don't neglect your other qualities. If you don't have the body of a supermodel, don't worry about it. Stay in shape and take care of your appearance, but show off your inner qualities the most. What men really want is a woman who is beautiful on the inside.
Part of the problem is that men don't know what they want themselves until the right girl comes along. If you asked a single guy what he wanted in a woman, the answer would be painfully simplistic and revolve around sex. If you took his word at face value, you would think you had to spend a fortune on breast implants and plastic surgery in order to give a man what he wants.
Save your money. Use it to buy yourself clothes that reflect your personality. Men end up going for the girls who have a unique aura about them. They are self-confident and intriguing looking. There's something about a girl that has that aura of confidence that makes men think beyond sex and want to get to know the person behind the body.
Being self confident isn't the same thing as being stand-offish. Truly confident people are always interested in others. When a cute guy approaches you, you don't need to pretend like you're not interested. The fact that you are interested in him will give him the courage to pursue you. The fact that you're not interested in him exclusively will make him feel like he has to work for you.
What men really want is a woman who makes them feel the confidence and self-respect that is lacking in their own life. They want to be admired and appreciated, but they also want their partner to be admired and appreciated as well. What they want is mutual respect. That's why, if a guy has to choose between a girl with a great body and a girl with a great mind and personality as a life partner, he'll choose the latter.
If you've got the body, great! That's a bonus. But don't neglect your other qualities. If you don't have the body of a supermodel, don't worry about it. Stay in shape and take care of your appearance, but show off your inner qualities the most. What men really want is a woman who is beautiful on the inside.
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