Wouldn't it be great if you could read women's minds so we know exactly what they are looking for in a man? Well, as a woman I may be able to shed some light on this issue. You know how girls love to chat, so here is the main areas men should be looking at if they want to become more attractive to women.
Most women expect the male to be masterful, to be able to take control with confidence. Yes, there are women who like to boss men around but they are in the minority. A woman likes men that are strong in the body and strong in the mind. They don't like sheepish wimps and ditherers, they want a commanding male who can make decisions with confidence. A little forceful so you mean business can be a very impressive attribute.
Forget about bulging biceps, a woman likes her man to be toned, physically fit in all areas, especially the chest and backside. Bodybuilding pretenders are a real turnoff. You have to look as though you care about your weight and shape so spending a few nights at the local gym should have positive effects.
Women a very big on personal hygiene. Smelly feet are a real turn-off, along with dirty finger nails, unshaven faces, body odor and bad breath. The only one of these which you may get away with is designer stubble so unshaven faces could be the one that should not cause you too many problems.
Women love to run their fingers through your hair so don't cut it too short. As long as a ladies fingers can run through it you will be fine. Hairy backs are a real nightmare for men and women. It's painful to have it waxed and removed but your lady will thank you for it. Hairy chests on the other hand are fine. Shaven chests are optional. Designer aftershave or body spray is very attractive to women.
A woman loves a man to look smart at all times. Avoid jeans that drag on the floor, shorts, baseball caps and very lose clothing are a turn-off. Designer jeans with shoes, shirt and lose jacket is very attractive along with suits and ties on special occasions. Avoid training shoes that have seen better days.
A sense of humor is a wonderful attribute to have. Women like to laugh, well most of them anyway. Some tasteful jokes will go a long way to breaking the ice and will relax a woman. Pay attention when a woman is speaking, if she thinks you are not listening or even worse, not interested, then you have just caused a real problem.
Buy your woman little trinkets, nothing major or expensive. It just shows that you are thinking of her and want to make her happy so a little teddy bear or soft toy is a really good move. Allow a women to have her opinion, don't just presume she agrees with you. She has her own mind so let her have a say in decision making.
Be punctual, if you say you are going to call then do so. Never be late on a date and always be there first. Women start to feel very used and taken for granted if they show up first. If she's late then say nothing or make a little joke out of it.
But more than anything, be yourself. Don't put on some false persona because it will only have a very limited shelf life and the real you will show through in time. Just get into good habits and the rest will follow naturally. If you hit it off great, if not then maybe this one is not for you.
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