Thursday, July 29, 2010

How to Attract Women Instantly and Effortlessly

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How to attract women is a deep subject with as many perspectives and insights as you could hope to read or learn in a lifetime.

But if you read and study these ideas - on what attracts women to men - you'll notice one single theme, one common denominator: women are attracted to men who offer value.

Without going into all of the evolutionary and psychological reasoning behind this, take my word for it, you name something that a woman finds attractive in a man, and it's some sort of value being offered to her.

So how do you add value to a woman's life? It can be anything from being well-dressed, good looking and having money, to having a great sense of humor, being kind, strong and confident to teasing her and showing her experiences she's never had before.

But here are a couple key principles to keep in mind:

* Stand out from the crowd. If you look like every other guy she sees all day, she's not going to perceive you to be offering much that other guys aren't. This doesn't mean dress like a clown, but develop your sense of style and express your personality more freely.

* Develop your sense of humor. If you're not naturally witty or funny, take some improv classes and comedy classes. Everyone can develop a sense of humor. If you are funny, start using it - but not on yourself. Nothing screams low-value like self-depreciating humor (unless you're Woody Allen, of course).

* Be happy and positive. Positive people who are happy with their lives and situation natural magnetize other people towards them, men and women. This is especially important with women because they're very empathic and if you're negative and depressed, they'll feel negative and depressed around you, not wanting to hang out with you.

* Have a lot of friends. Go out and create a large social circle. Not only are very social people generally more happy with their lives, but they demonstrate greater value to any women who may meet you. Not to mention that the more friends you have, the more women you'll be able to meet through them.But these principles are by no means everything. In fact, they really scratch the surface. We give in-depth explanations about attraction and value at our seminars. They'll change the way you perceive women and social dynamics, guaranteed.

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