Relationships - 5 Ways To Make Him Nuts Over You

Are you ready to turn the tables so that your guy is chasing you instead of you wondering about him? Are you tired of wondering if you turn him on or off? You want to keep him, but he's losing interest. That game is now over for you. Here is an introduction to how he thinks and what he wants and what drives him crazy. Count them: 1,2,3,4,5 - that's right, 5 secrets he will never tell you.

1. The number one, top of the list, must for your guy - RESPECT. It means admiration. Want to know what it looks like? You do not talk behind his back. It means you do not have too much freakin pride to compliment him. It means you do not always have to have your way.

2. Know what he likes and care about it too. That's right, research what he likes. Is it football? Soccer? Reading? Movies? You should know this.

Action Plan: Make a list of the 10 things he likes then arrange one. Surprise him with tickets to a football game or a movie or a gift card to a bookstore. When it nails down his like, he knows you care bout him...instant erection. You have entered his world, congratulations.

3. Make sure he knows you are on his side. Here is what you do not know - guys have very little when it comes to support. Men are not good at this. You be his support.

Action Plan: Verbalize support...for example, he is ranting about his boss or some person for whatever reason. Join in and be angry with him. Call the other guy a prick or asshole.

Never, never, never try to give the other guys point of view. Always be on your man's side. If he thinks you are not, you have created a gap.

4. He does not want to hear everything you want to say. OK, that's offensive to you. He is not trying to offend you, that is just how most guys roll.

Studies show women speak 20,000 words a day and guys about half that. Use up some of your with your girlfriends. If you do not, he will be drifting off and then you will really be offended.

5. When it comes to sex, most guys are a little insecure and vulnerable. He will never tell you that. But if you know it, then avoid scenes that add to his insecurity.

Have you noticed that he has lost interest in sex? It may simply be insecurity - and he may not know it himself.

Action Plan: Set up a win win situation. You win by having his intimacy and he wins by building security. So, when he is being affectionate or lovey-dovey, you run with it form there. You heard me right, guys love it when women take the initiative. When he gives a sign, you take over. Fireworks for you tonight!

These are mostly an excerpts and are condensed. But there is enough to make things begin to happen between you and your man. This is not intended to be all about him, and no relationship can ever work that way. But this article has enough room to only address this aspect. Remember the true saying, Want? Then give.