Yes, it's true. There are some girls who have perfect bodies and know how to show them off. These women attract men like flies. But do you want to attract flies or a man who will fall in love with you? Look into their history and these sex goddesses lives are filled with heartbreak. You can easily make a man want you for your body, but that will not win his heart.
Instead of looking at the flash-in-the-pan sex goddesses as your role model, look at women who have had successful long term loving relationships with men. Yes, they always look their best, but their most outstanding quality is their personality. They are not cookie-cutter beauties, but unique individuals. They are the one-and-only for their men because they are one-of-a-kind.
Ironically, the best way to make a man fall in love with you is to just be yourself and not care too much about whether or not you find "Mr. Right." That's not the same as being cold and indifferent. Love life and be interested in the lives of others, but be your own person first. That will set you apart from the others and attract the right man into your life.
When a man does come into your life who kindles your love, let him chase you. Men love the chase, so don't deny him that pleasure. You might be tempted to make the first move, but if you want to catch him and hold onto him, make him chase you first. He will want you even more if he is afraid he can't have you.
So you see, the last thing you want to do is try to be like other girls or try to act like you think guys want you to be. That will just make you part of the herd. Stand out from the crowd by being your own unique person. That's the real way to make a man want you and want to stay with you forever.
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